First the good news:
Buffalo Triathlon was today.
I have not done this race since 2005, which was the first year I participated in triathlon. The event is always scheduled for the first Sunday in June, which is also the same weekend for the Edina Art Fair.
Hubby is a part-time photographer and has been a selected artist of the art fair ever since 2006. We typically have spent this weekend manning the booth at the fair making Buffalo an "event of the past" for me.
Not this year. Hubby decided to take a break from the art fair so I had the chance to register for the sprint distance event. My goal was to do better -- MUCH better-- than I did in 2005.
Well, yippee-eye-yeah-cai-yo, I achieved my goal.
I beat my 2005 time by almost 21-minutes (20:56 to be exact). Best of all, I placed 4th out of 11 in my age group. I am estatic (if I do say so myself).
I had a great swim, a pretty good bike ride and a pretty good run (even with waiting in line for the portapotty...).
Three other friends (Nat, Marcia and Sara) also did the sprint distance course today. We all had great races and a lot of fun.
Buffalo is a very well run event; they give away great schwag, have very enthusiastic volunteers and I was very happy to be able to do the event this year. I highly recommend it.
Now on to Subject Number Two: Divorce.
No, Hubby and I are not getting divorced.
That is an event I can not even imagine happening. I love him with all my heart, even after all these years of togetherness...
I had to divorce my IM coach. At least moving away from him felt like a divorce.
We'd been working together for several months and on the POSITIVE side, I'm running better and feeling stronger than I have in a long time.
He is an awesome athlete, his company is undergoing restructuring and he is a very busy guy.
I need more attention. I need more u-rah-rah. I need someone who will actually require me to log my training hours and give me feedback.
My old coach (now lovingly referred to as "OC") didn't have the time to check logs or provide much advice. (In his defense, during our divorce proceedings, he said that I was paying for a service. His service provided workouts and advice if I were to proactively ask for it. He said that if I wanted him to be more proactive, I could pay more money. That did not seem like a good deal to me).
I thought about this long and hard and decided that if I was going to make a move, I'd have to do it now. There are only 15-weeks left until Ironman Wisconsin and my training can not skip a beat at this point.
So....I divorced him last week.
And you have to know that our relationship was a polygamous relationship (meaning OC obviously has other clients...). One of his other clients was also unhappy, so she divorced him too.
We've both entered a new relationship with a NEW coach -- "NC". NC is already sending unsolicited emails with lots of advice and encouragement. He is also sending training plans that look like they are going to challenge us and get us stronger.
Perhaps it is only a honeymoon period, but we both feel that NC will get us through the next 15-weeks and to the finish line.
The only question now is whether we should register at a local tri store for some gifts.....